Tired Out

A full day at preschool really takes alot out of you!

Eli has made a great transition to his new school.  I was needlessly nervous about it.  The drop off procedure has parents pull up to the curb and the teachers come and take the kids out of the car and take them into school.  (aside:  how awesome is this, I'm thinking especially of winter!)  Eli giggles and squeals when his teacher comes out to get him in the morning.  There was an open house Friday night and I got to talk with his teachers and they said all kinds of nice things about how well Eli is doing, which mothers always love to hear.  They enthused about how he knows all the letters and the letter sounds and can recognize the initial sounds of words.  He spelled "sun" for one of them and she was surprised.  One teacher showed me a 1 to 100 grid and said Eli put in the first 20 numbers without looking at the guide, which she found impressive.  All that's cool, and it is nice to get a window into what he likes at school.  The best part for me is that they reported he is talking some at school (he's not chatty by any means, but they have heard him speak - so that's progress).   They told me that there are two older girls who have befriended him and who he will interact with and follow around.  I think it's something like one of the girls will invite him to come over and sit with them in the circle, and Eli does.  That's a big deal for him.    As unstructured as Montessori seems on the surface, there are actually alot of procedures to follow and expectations for the children and things that they are supposed to be responsible for on their own.  Changing their own shoes, serving themselves snack, using their particular washcloth (they are hung on the wall with a passport-sized picture next to each one to identify who's it is) and then hanging it back up when they are done.  This is good practice for Eli, doing things other people's way is not his strong suit.  His teachers said he is doing well and adapting to the program, which is great news to us.  We're proud of our boy.

Month of August

Some pictures from August.

This is from the very beginning of the month.  The corn is about twice as high now and I think we actually will get some ears to eat.  Eli loves to walk along the stepping stones and point out and name the plants.  And paw in the dirt, of course.

A couple of Charlotte that she requested.  She has a doll school that she likes to set up, and we had a class picture day for her students.  We took individuals and then she posed with each one and then the whole class shot.  I made her a sheet of the headshots and titled it "Miss Mohr's Class" and she loved it.

The girls got their faces painted at the Elmwood Art Festival.  The artists did an amazing job!

Some of Eli from this weekend.  His favorite show lately is Toy Story.  He watches all three movies and could probably recite the most of the dialogue from them all.  He has most of the characters in these little figures and he plays with all of them.  Buzz and Woody are his favorites, I think Buzz the top favorite.  Next, he loves Evil Doctor Porkchop and Zurg alot. 

 

I asked him to show me Woody.

I don't know why I got this puppy dog look from him, but it's a face he makes often.  When he is ticked or frustrated he will knock things over or toss them on the floor (somewhat carefully measured so as not to get hollered at) and then turn and say "what happened?" with his hands up to his face. 

 My sweet boy sitting on the couch. 

This is what he was up to while I was taking the shots above.  He likes to line up the crayons by color (you can see in the shot).

Charlie

A rare blog appearance from my wonderful oldest daughter!

I showed Charlie a pile of prints that I had made of recent pictures of the family. I asked her to tell me what stood out to her about them. She saw it right away. "They're all of Eli?" Yeah. So, she consented to being photogrpahed one day on the front porch. Isn't she growing up? Still my little cutie, though.

This one has the best smile!

 

3 years old

Happy birthday to my little man.  3 years!  Holy cow.

Here is (lousy iPhone quality) video from tonight.  I like this so much because he is just so tickled by everyone singing to him.  About 15 minutes after this, he totally melted down while trying to eat his cake with his fork without it crumbling into unapproved smaller pieces. 



When I signed in to my YouTube account to post this, I found a few other videos that I uploaded and never shared. Here is one from the Museum of Natural History in DC last summer that I also love.



I didn't take any real pictures of Eli today although I meant to, so another birthday post coming this week...

Almost 3

June 23, 2009

May 27, 2010



June 16, 2011

And my favorite from today...

Dirt

Eli loves to play in the dirt.  Sandboxes, flowerbeds, random mud puddles - he's not picky.  He loved the beach when we were in Florida.  He started asking for it by the end of the week whenever we got in the car.  He would say, "Let's go beach?"  He doesn't ask for much with words like that, so it shows the power of the attraction.

Derek is making a spot for a vegetable garden in the backyard, and Eli came upon the pile of new dirt this evening.  Heaven.

Puzzle

It's been a long week of evaluations for Eli, as the school district reevaluates him to determine what speech and other services he will receive after he turns 3.  He was stressed and miserable during most of it and it didn't go very well.  We knew that it wouldn't.  We have a pretty good expectation about what the reports will say, and while we don't really disagree with any of their points we still question how well the evaluations are capturing the whole picture of our little boy.  Is he on the road to an Autism spectrum type diagnosis?  Should we be pushing him harder out of his comfort zone during these formative early years?  Is he just free-spirited, self-directed and an introvert (qualities I can totally respect and which are certainly his birthright)?  Does he just need a little more time to work on developing his language and social/emotional skills?   Derek and I go back and forth on these and many other questions all the time.  I clearly see how he interacts (or how he doesn't interact, actually) with the evaluators as well as with family members and close friends, and absolutely not through any lack of their trying or reaching out to him.  Then I feel like I am trying hard to avoid sounding defensive when I say, "but you should see how he can be and what he can do."  It's not really defensiveness, I guess.  Mostly it's intense frustration at how badly I want everyone to be able to get to know the sweet, friendly, playful, affectionate little guy that Derek and I know and interact with every day.

 



I came home from a session this morning and filled up the remainder of my CF card with these shots taken in our family room.  I took 69 frames of Eli in about 7 minutes.  I edited 8 of them above, but here are all 69.  I am not sure how well the web size shows the details, but you can click on it for a larger version if you feel like it.  That's my boy.



Perfect

A slideshow from the beach in Florida.  I used one of my favorite songs (copyright gods, forgive me), which very much expresses how I feel about these four of my favorite people.  My sister commented on how close Charlotte and my mom are in height.  It really is remarkable.  Where did my baby go? 

That little box-surrounded-by-arrows icon in the lower right hand corner of the slideshow window makes the slideshow full screen if you click on it.  It's so small in the embedded window, I think.



A few more from Florida.   My girl Gracie.

Eli and Daddy in the pool.